Zizzie Happenings

P365 ~ Week 4

2012-01-29T22:05:00.000-08:00

I have to share this video and I hope Kathy and Paul don't mind. After devotions one night Paul took out my little song book from Argentina and picked out a song to sing.

Sunday ~ tried to get some cards finished. I am working on cards with verses on them. I find they can be used for anything and they are good to have on hand.

Monday ~ Worked on making some more cards. Today was a focus on thank you cards.

Tuesday ~ I had a stamping buddy to spend the day with.

This is one of Jen's creations for the day. I have to say she did a wonderful job especially since this was her first time stamping. I love how her cards turned out.

Wednesday ~ I had finished making dinner and I was getting ready to sit and relax when I noticed that the entire house was orange. I didn't have any lights on and the fiery orange colors coming through the windows were amazing. This picture doesn't do it justice. It colors in the sky were so gorgeous!

Thursday ~ I didn't get to walk very many days this week so I decided to walk longer. I almost made 6 miles. I think this is the longest I've ever walked.

Friday ~ I am back to working at Kathy's office. It's only once a week but it will help her out and the extra money will be a blessing for me. This is what I got accomplished on my first day back. All these policies needed to be bound, policy letters printed and then stuffed in envelopes to mail out. I didn't take the time to count them all but I would say there are probably around 60. There is a desk in the back with a pile of papers to file but I didn't get to those. I guess my next work day I'll be able to work on that.

Saturday ~ We had a little party with some ladies from church. We had them over and watched "The Help" movie. We got fried chicken and we made baked beans, mac and cheese, biscuits and of course a chocolate pie. It was fun. The two ladies who were able to make it had never seen the movie or read the book. We had a good time laughing and crying.

How did you spend your last full week of January?

TSMSS ~ Complete in Thee

2012-01-28T10:45:00.000-08:00

Seasons in Life

2012-01-26T12:56:00.000-08:00

Ecclesiastes 3:1-8

There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens:
a time to be born and a time to die,
a time to plant and a time to uproot,
a time to kill and a time to heal,
a time to tear down and a time to build,
a time to weep and a time to laugh,
a time to mourn and a time to dance,
a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them,
a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing,
a time to search and a time to give up,
a time to keep and a time to throw away,
a time to tear and a time to mend,
a time to be silent and a time to speak,
a time to love and a time to hate,
a time for war and a time for peace.

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I find myself in a new season in life. No longer being a help meet to Mike and no longer having Mike to lead me, I want my time and my focus to be on God. A time to focus on deepening my relationship with my Lord. A time to serve Him and be used of Him. A time to be molded by Him. And a time of peace knowing I'm in His will.

What season of life are you in?

Ordinary You, Extraordinary God

2012-01-25T21:30:00.000-08:00

During my nice long walk today I listened to Walk in the Word broadcast messages. Very convicting messages of how ordinary I am and how extraordinary God is.
Listen to the message (all three parts) and you too will be blessed, convicted and challenged.

1 Samuel 16:7 ~ But the LORD said to Samuel, “Do not look on his appearance or on the height of his stature, because I have rejected him. For the LORD sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the LORD looks on the heart.”

A Woman After God's Own Heart ~ Chapter 15

2012-01-24T05:00:00.000-08:00

A Heart That Creates Order from Chaos

Responsibility & Accountability

1 Timothy 5:13-14 ~ And besides they learn to be idle, wandering about from house to house, and not only idle but also gossips and busybodies, saying things which they ought not. Therefore I desire that the younger widows marry, bear children, manage the house, give no opportunity to the adversary to speak reproachfully.

Every day we are called to manage what God has given us, what He has provided through our husbands' efforts and our own.

The woman who manages her house is not the head of the home (her husband is if she is married and God is if she is not). Instead, she is the householder, the home manager.

What a blessing it is to us when we serve Him well in this capacity. And what a blessing we are to our family when we properly manage the house.

How?

Understand that home management is God's best for us

Home management is His plan, His way. It's His good and acceptable perfect will for us (Romans 12:2)
"Good, better, best, never let it rest, until your good is better, and your better best."
Choosing to manage our homes is God's best for us

Decide to take home management seriously

If we manage our homes effectively, we will have time to be involved in church ministry.
Luke 16:10 ~ He that is faithful in that which is least is faithful also in much: and he that is unjust in the least is unjust also in much.
1 Corinthians 4:2 ~ Moreover it is required in stewards, that a man be found faithful.
Once I have shown myself to be a faithful manager at home, I am more free to run out the door and do the work of ministry outside my home.
Order emerges out of chaos when we schedule what's important

Live as though you will be accountable for the condition of your home and the use of your time... because you will!

What do people see when they enter your home? Do they find calm -- or chaos? Peace -- or panic? Palace -- or pigpen? Evidence of preparation -- or procrastination?

12 Tips for Time Management

Plan in detail

I've found that the more you plan, the better you manage and the more you active.
The more detailed your plans are, the better.

Deal with today

Matthew 6:34 ~ Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.
Psalm 118:24 ~ This is the day the LORD has made; We will rejoice and be glad in it.

Value each minute

How much is a minute worth? It's priceless or worthless--depending on how you use it.

Keep moving

A body at rest tends to rem in at rest, and a bay in motion tends to remain in motion.

Develop a routine
Exercise and diet/way of life
As the "half the time" question

"If my life depended upon doing this task in half the time I have allotted, what shortcuts would I take?"

Use a timer for everything

The timer helps you allow less time

Do the worst first

What is the worst task on your to-do list? Do it first and you'll keep that heavy cloud of dread from hanging over you all day long.

Read daily on time management
Say no

Make your schedule. Let it be Plan A. Then follow your plan by saying no to yourself and to others. Move to Plan B only if God is moving you to Plan B.

Begin the night before

Little steps like these can bring results when it comes to time management and being organized at home

Menu Plan ~ Week 3

2012-01-23T05:00:00.000-08:00

Paul started getting sick Saturday night so I decided I better add homemade chicken soup to our menu this week. So here is what our menu for this week looks like:

chicken noodle soup
ham loaves
fajitas
macaroni and cheese
lemon thyme chicken

P365 ~ Week 3

2012-01-22T05:00:00.000-08:00

Sunday

We had Carrie over for lunch and we had such a good time talking that she didn't head out until dark.

Monday

Kathy was off work so we were able to start the day off with pedicures. We spent the entire day running errands. We got a lot accomplished and I was very thankful that Kathy had the day off.

Tuesday

Ugh... My only day of walking. This week was not so good but I hope to get back in the swing of things with walking next week.

Wednesday

Two sweet girls at church had their birthday this month so I wanted to make special cards for them. Gracie is turning 6 and Meghan is 3.

Thursday

I started feeling sick so I tried to take it easy. I worked on some cards but that was all I really got done. This is one of the cards I was able to complete.

Friday

started off making cards and then ended up with a really bad headache so another day of not accomplishing too much.

Saturday

Paul had to go to work in the afternoon so we all took it easy in the morning. I made waffles and served Kathy and Paul breakfast in bed so they could rest a little longer.

Time to see how everyone else spent their week.

TSMSS ~ I Have Decided

2012-01-21T03:30:00.000-08:00

Thanks to Amy @ Signs, Miracles, Wonders for hosting Then Sings My Soul Saturdays. Now go check out her blog and all the other participants.

A Woman After God's Own Heart ~ Chapter 14

2012-01-20T05:30:00.000-08:00

A Heart That Watches Over the Home

Watching and Working

Proverbs 31:27 ~ She watches over the ways of her household, And does not eat the bread of idleness.

Looking Over the Functions of the Home

safety, health, cleanliness, and security
money - saving, giving, and stretching it
take care of clothing needs and maintenance
food planning and preparation

as the one who does the grocery shopping and stocks the pantry and refrigerator, I watch over the nutrition, the selection, and the types of foods and beverages available in the house.

oversee the calendar, keeping an eye open to upcoming events
all the while intently watching over the attitudes and unexpressed needs of each family member

What a blessing you can be to your family as you watch, as you keep a lookout over the various functions of the home.
What a great way to be a helper for your husband as you anticipate, perceive, and act on needs in the home. Before your husband even thinks of something, you have taken care of it!

How?

Step 1: Understand that this role as helper and guard is God's plan for you

a woman after God's own heart - married or not - watches over the ways of her household and refuses to eat the bread of idleness (Proverbs 31:27)
God calls me to be a "virtuous" woman (Proverbs 31:10). The word virtuous means moral strength, strength of character. But a second meaning emphasizes physical ability and psychical prowess. And Proverbs 31 is all about a virtuous woman in both senses of the word.

Step 2: Begin watching over your home (versus eating the bread of idleness)

Proverbs 14:23a ~ In all labor there is profit
God's principles were His solutions to my disorganization and inefficiency in my home.

Step 3: Eliminate idleness

Time Robbers

procrastination
inadequate personal planning and scheduling
interruptions by people without appointments (this includes interruptions by way of the telephone. And please note, your children are not interruptions--they are your greatest work and the best investment of your time!)
failure to delegate
poor use of the telephone
reading junk mail
lack of concern for good time management
unclear priorities

Which robber will you corral this week as you become a more alert, better watcher over your home?

We must pray for eyes to see the vision God has for our precious home and for the hearts to understand how important what happens in our home is to Him. May our goal be that our houses be made into homes that show forth God's desires for the beauty and purpose of those structures.

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Dear Heavenly Father,
Give me eyes to see your vision for this home, give me a hear that understands what is important and what I should focus on each day.
May I remember that in all labor there is profit. May I not eat the bread of idleness and be content.
In Jesus Name,
Amen

Far More

2012-01-19T05:00:00.000-08:00

Now to Him who is able to do far more abundantly beyond all that we ask or think, according to the power that works within us ~ Ephesians 3:20

The other day I was totally blown away by how God blessed me. It was far more than anything I ever imagined.

It's a surprise which I should be able to share on my blog in a few weeks.

I am so excited and thankful with how God worked it all out.

Polynesian Roast

2012-01-18T07:12:00.000-08:00

1 beef top round roast (I used London broil)
1/4 cup flour
1 tsp salt
1/4 tsp pepper
1 medium onion, sliced
1 can (8 oz) unsweetened sliced pineapple
1/4 cup packed brown sugar
2 Tbsp cornstarch
1/4 tsp ground ginger
1/2 cup beef broth
1/4 cup soy sauce
1/2 tsp minced garlic

Combine the flour, salt and pepper; rub over meat. Place onion in a slow cooker; top with roast.
Drain pineapple, reserving juice; refrigerate the pineapple. In a small bowl, combine the brown sugar, cornstarch and ginger; whisk in the broth, soy sauce, garlic and reserved pineapple juice until smooth. Pour over meat. Cover and cook on low for 7 to 8 hours.
Add the pineapple, cook 1 hour longer or until the meat is tender.

Serve with rice.

Roads and Paths

2012-01-18T05:30:00.000-08:00

I received this from a friend and I just had to share it on my blog.

There may be some steep hills to climb,

some times when the road seems treacherous and you aren't sure which turn to take...

times when you feel like you are on the brink of falling,

and there may be many curves in the road

as you make your way through the ups and downs of 2012,

May you know God's presence with you through each tunnel,

every steep climb,

every curve,

in the beautiful mountaintop experiences with Him,

and through the slippery storms of life;

May He walk with you down through the valleys and up the mountains,

take your hand and guide you through to the light,

put a hedge around you to keep you safe,

help you to find joy and excitement in the roller coaster ride,

and fill you with amazement at the beauty He provides along the way.

Take time to smell the flowers,

to admire His handiwork

along Life's railway;

And may His love flood over you, fill you, and overflow in praise to Him for all He's done!

Amazing.....Isn't He!

A Woman After God's Own Heart ~ Chapter 13

2012-01-17T05:00:00.000-08:00

A Heart That Makes a House a Home

Proverbs 14:1 ~ The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down.

Creating the atmosphere

I want the atmosphere inside our house to be warm, cheerful, loving, positive, and constructive.
God gives us the heart, the wisdom, and the words to create a healthy atmosphere.

Building a refuge

build the kind of home which strengthens and renews each family member

Avoiding the negatives

anger out of control speaks words that break, destroy, ruin and kill.
simply failing to work

never getting around to "it"
We can slowly erode the foundation of our home by our laziness

Making a house a home is indeed a matter of the heart.

How?

Understand that wisdom builds

We are either about the business of building the home, its atmosphere and its order, or we are pulling it down through destructive attitudes and neglect.

Decide to begin building

It's never too late to begin to build your house, to create an enchanted oasis called "home"
Begin by making a positive decision (or by recommitting yourself) to do your work in the home "willingly" (Proverbs 31:13) and "heartily" (Colossians 3:23).
The attitude of your heart is key.

Each day, do one thing to build your home

make a l its of the things that need to be added, repaired, set up, etc., so that your area is more of a refuge. Then do just one item on your list each day-- or even one each week.
You may also want to deal with one attitude that--if improved, if transformed by God--would enhance the atmosphere of the home.

God--who made us and knows us best--wants us to make a house a home, and He will help us do that.

P365 ~ Week 2

2012-01-15T05:30:00.000-08:00

I kept up with my walking goal this week but I didn't do a very good job of taking pictures throughout the week.

Sunday

We spent all weekend cooking and cleaning the kitchen that I just needed a break so I asked Kathy and Paul if they wanted to go to our favorite pizza place ~ Grimaldis. Along with pizza they make the best cheesecake I've ever tasted... even better than Cheesecake factory.

Monday

During my walk today I noticed that two homes are being built in a nearby neighborhood. It makes me wonder if things are going to start looking up in the housing market.

Tuesday

I got a chicken magazine in the mail today and it just made my heart sad...brought back lots of memories of fun times with Mike.

Wednesday

I went over to my stamping friend's house to stamp the day away with her. I meant to take a picture of her and her amazing craft room but I got so involved in my stamping that I totally forgot to take any pictures. This is the card my friend made... isn't it gorgeous?!?

Thursday

I wonder how much it costs to go up in a hot air balloon? I see them several times a week and they always make me think how amazing it must be to go up into the clear blue sky and look down at the majestic mountains.

Friday

Again my intent was to get a picture of a couple who had us over for dinner but I totally forgot so instead I will share a picture of one of several cards I made this week.

Saturday

This couple just moved out here from South Carolina to help out in our church. We had them over for dinner so we could get to know them. We're praying their house in South Carolina sells soon so they can start getting settled in here.

How was your second week of the year? I'm heading over to Sara's to read all about it.

TSMSS ~ Nothing But The Blood

2012-01-14T05:00:00.000-08:00

Thanks to Amy @ Signs, Miracles, Wonders for hosting Then Sings My Soul Saturdays. Now go check out her blog and all the other participants.

Chicken with Mushroom Sauce

2012-01-13T05:00:00.000-08:00

2 tsp cornstarch
1/2 cup milk
4 boneless skinless chicken breast halves
1 Tbsp olive oil
1/2 pound mushrooms, sliced
1/2 medium onion, sliced
1 Tbsp butter
1/4 cup sherry or chicken broth
1/2 tsp salt
1/8 tsp pepper

In a small bowl, combine cornstarch and milk until smooth; set aside. Flatten chicken to 1/4 inch thickness. In a large skillet, cook chicken in oil over medium heat for 5 to 6 minutes on each side or until juices run clear. Remove and keep warm.
In the same skillet, sauté mushrooms and onion in butter until tender. Stir in the sherry or chicken brother, salt and pepper; bring to a boil. Stir cornstarch mixture and add to the pan. Bring to a boil; cook and stir for 2 minutes or until thickened. Serve with chicken.

A Woman After God's Own Heart ~ Chapter 11 & 12

2012-01-12T05:30:00.000-08:00

A Heart Overflowing with Motherly Affection

Titus 2:4 ~ That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children,

Phileo love is affectionate love, a love that cherishes its objects. It is friendship love, a love that enjoys children, a love that likes them!

A Heart That Prays

the greatest gift of love you can give children is to pray for them.

A Heart That Provides

a heart overflowing with motherly affection lovingly and graciously provides the necessities of life for her precious family-- nourishing food, clean clothing, and a safe home.
motherly affection puts self aside and loves the people in her home by caring for they physical needs.

A Heart That is Happy

Elisabeth Elliot said "You create the atmosphere of the home with your attitudes."
Mothers are the Number One influence in their children's lives

A Heart That Gives

Mark 10:45 ~ For even the Son of man came not to be ministered unto, but to minister, and to give his life a ransom for many.
Give because it is your role
Give generously

What you sow, that you shall also reap.
What Mother's put into their children on a daily basis -- seeds of patience or impatience, faith in God or lack of faith, kindness or selfishness -- would be what you gain back in years to come.

Give expecting nothing in return

Mothers are to have no ulterior or selfish motives when it comes to giving, just as we do with our husbands
serve and take care of our children simply because God says to
don't give love in order to receive praise, thanks, recognition or good behavior
there are no other options, no conditions, no exceptions, and no fine print when it comes to God's clear command that we are to love our children

A Heart of Fun
A Heart That Celebrates
A Heart That Gives Preferential Treatment

Don't give away to others what you have not first given away at home

A Heart That is Focused
A Heart That is Present
A Heart That is Quiet

Proverbs 31:26 ~ She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.
Provers 10:12 ~ Hatred stirreth up strifes: but love covereth all sins.

God's assignment to mothers can sound overwhelming if we don't remember that through His Word, in His power, and by His grace He fully provides all that we need to do what He commands.

What a privilege to care for the children He blesses us with and to raise them for His purpose!

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Dear Heavenly Father,
Thank you for giving us your holy word so that we may know how to live a life that pleases you. Thank you for putting older, Christian women in my life that I may learn from them both by their word and by their actions.
In Jesus Name,
Amen

Balsamic Glazed Carrots

2012-01-11T05:00:00.000-08:00

Balsamic Glazed Carrots

1 lb. fresh carrots, washed and cut into thin round slices
2 Tbsp olive oil
1 tsp salt
1/4 tsp black pepper
2 Tbsp balsamic vinegar
1 Tbsp brown sugar

Place all ingredients together and cook in skillet until carrots are tender. Serve and enjoy!

A Woman After God's Own Heart ~ Chapter 9 & 10

2012-01-10T05:00:00.000-08:00

A Heart That Values Being a Mother

Proverbs 1:8 ~ Listen, my son, to your father’s instruction and do not forsake your mother’s teaching.

There is no greater place of ministry, position, or power than that of a mother.

Four passions that reflect a hear that values being a mother.

A Passion for Teaching God's Word

Mother's are on assignment from God to teach His word to their children
Mom's can do many things for their children, but teaching God's Word must be their passion

The Word of God has value for salvation and value for eternity
God uses His Word to draw people to Himself
Romans 10:17 ~ So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.
2 Timothy 3:15 ~ and how from infancy you have known the Holy Scriptures, which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus.
God's Word never returns to Him without first accomplishing His divine purpose

A Passion for Teaching God's Wisdom

Proverbs 31:1-9 ~ The words of king Lemuel, the prophecy that his mother taught him. What, my son? and what, the son of my womb? and what, the son of my vows? Give not thy strength unto women, nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings. It is not for kings, O Lemuel, it is not for kings to drink wine; nor for princes strong drink: Lest they drink, and forget the law, and pervert the judgment of any of the afflicted. Give strong drink unto him that is ready to perish, and wine unto those that be of heavy hearts. Let him drink, and forget his poverty, and remember his misery no more. Open thy mouth for the dumb in the cause of all such as are appointed to destruction. Open thy mouth, judge righteously, and plead the cause of the poor and needy.
Deuteronomy 6:6-7 ~ And these words, which I command thee this day, shall be in thine heart: And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down , and when thou risest up .
The practical wisdom of God is taught in two ways

we teach by our words, by our talk
we teach by our walk, by the way we live our lives.

A Heart That Prays Faithfully

A Passion for Prayer

learn from godly and praying mothers and grandmothers
ask God for His insights for your children
pray for your children's salvation and for their Christian mates

A Passion for Godly Training

we must not stop with prayer, we must model a life dedicated to the Lord and train our children to follow His ways.
take your children to church... Sunday morning, evening and Wednesday night.
teach priorities - family first, church second and school third

It's God's job to work in our children's hearts, but it is our job to make God;s standards the standards of our own hearts and then to walk by those standards.

Menu for Week 2 of 2012

2012-01-09T05:30:00.000-08:00

While I was away dog sitting, Kathy and Paul decided that this new year was going to be a year of less eating out. I, of course, totally agree with that decision and look forward to cooking. Kathy had already made up the menu for the entire month. The first week went well, we changed one thing because we needed to use a ham that our neighbor gave us for Christmas.

What's on the menu this week you ask?

polynesian roast
mini ham loaves
lemon thyme chicken
sausage lentil soup
empanadas
honey soy chicken
grilled salmon
ravioli

If these recipes are voted as "do again" by all three of us then I will blog the recipe and add it to our monthly rotating menu.

P365 ~ Week 1

2012-01-07T17:30:00.000-08:00

First of all I want to say "I'M BACK". I'm sorry I wasn't able to finish out last year but I'm glad I took the break because now I am ready to focus on Project 365 this year.

This first week of the year has been very different for me. I didn't start a new diet and I feel like I have been released from a huge burden. I know that sounds strange but every year I would start a diet and New Years Day was always hard sticking to the diet and then it always went down hill from there. Always being obsessed with what I could and could not eat. I have lived most of my life on a diet and I can tell you from much experience that the first few days of dieting are horrible for me. I get really cranky! Every new year I started dieting because that is what you do... right? I am overweight, so dieting just made sense.

This year I have a totally different view on food. I don't know when it changed. Looking back, maybe it started when I had my day of fasting, or when I started walking, or maybe even just the difference in the food Paul and Kathy like to eat and what I was use to eating. I don't know the reason, but I can tell you that this first week of 2012 I have felt GREAT. I haven't obsessed over food, I haven't felt guilty, and I haven't felt deprived or overwhelmed.

Now, on to sharing my week in pictures and I hope you join me in this fun project.

Sunday

I said good bye to Mr Beasley after watching him for 2 1/2 weeks. He was fun to be with but it was time to go home.

Monday

It was nice having Kathy and Paul home from work. I got into this huge decluttering mood and I started cleaning out the closet, which we use as a pantry. I decided if we hadn't used something for a year we needed to get rid of it. We just don't have the space to hold onto everything. I had my pile of things that I was getting rid of which were items I brought with me from Georgia. After I made my pile, I told Kathy and Paul that I sacrificed some items and now it was their turn to give some things up. It was funny, because Paul quickly grabbed the Espresso maker and said he wanted to make a cup. Since he hadn't used it in a long time he didn't want to get rid of it so he had to quickly use it so it would be safe. We all had a good laugh about that one!

Tuesday

I normally make healthy whole wheat bread with my freshly ground wheat but I have lots of bread flour to use up so I made some white bread in my bread machine and it was delicious! We ate the entire loaf in one day. Steaming hot bread with a little butter on it.... YUMMY!

Wednesday

These are two newly discovered favorite items. When we went over to our friends house for Christmas lunch they had this Coconut Creme Coffee Mate and it was so good I had to get some for us to enjoy at home. The clementine is a Cutie. I always thought Cuties were a type of citrus fruit but it's actually a name brand. We love Cuties, although we always bought little tangerine Cuties. We found these clementine Cuties and they are just as good as the tangerines. Actually, they are even better because they are bigger. Anyway, if you see Cuties in your grocery store I definitely recommend them. They are always sweet, easy to peel and seedless.

Thursday

It felt so good to be back in the craft room with all my stamps. I was able to get some card packages posted on my Etsy shop last week and now I want to start making more cards to use and some to sell.

Friday

Last year before the hustle and bustle of the holidays began we had a Pampered Chef party. One of the items I was able to get was this mini loaf stoneware. I made some chocolate banana bread and it turned out perfectly.

Saturday

I made it the entire week walking 3 miles every day. I hope to do the same next week.

This completes my first week of 2012. See you next week!

TSMSS ~ Grace Flows Down

2012-01-07T05:00:00.000-08:00

Thanks to Amy @ Signs, Miracles, Wonders for hosting Then Sings My Soul Saturdays. Now go check out her blog and all the other participants.

Memorization

2012-01-06T06:00:00.000-08:00

This month I am working on memorizing 1 Peter 3:15.

But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts, and be ready always to give an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of the hope that is in you with meekness and fear. 1 Peter 3:15

A Woman After God's Own Heart ~ Chapter 7 & 8

2012-01-05T05:00:00.000-08:00

A Heart That Loves

Titus 2:4 ~ that they admonish the young women to love their husbands, to love their children,

"In the tiny book of Titus, I discovered that I am to hold my husband first in my heart after God."

Heartfelt Yet Practical Love - "a love that cherishes, enjoys, and likes our husbands!"

"We should see our husband as our best friend and want to be with him more than with any other person."

How?

Decide to make your husband your Number One human relationship

"The way we use our time should reflect that ranking."
"God said that we are to 'leave and cleave'--to leave our parents and cleave to our mate (Genesis 2:24)."
"Your husband is to be Number One in your life (after God)--and he needs to know it. And everyone else needs to know it too."

Begin to choose your husband over all other human relationships -this includes your children.

"The point at which many marriages jump the track is in over-investing in children and under-investing in the marriage."
"You're wise to keep checking priorities....You can be both mother and wife. But the wise woman remembers she will begin and end as a wife."
"This is what loving your husband is really all about--spoiling him rotten."
"Nine tried-and-true ways to groom yourself in the fine art of showering your husband with friendship love."

1) Pray for your husband daily

James 5:16 ~ Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much.

"As you invest your time, your heart, and your life in prayer for your husband, you'll wake up one day and find arguments decreasing and a mellowing--even a warming--in your heart toward your husband."

1 Peter 3:1-6 ~ Wives, in the same way submit yourselves to your own husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives, when they see the purity and reverence of your lives. Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight. For this is the way the holy women of the past who put their hope in God used to adorn themselves. They submitted themselves to their own husbands, like Sarah, who obeyed Abraham and called him her lord. You are her daughters if you do what is right and do not give way to fear.

Matthew 6:21 ~ For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.

"You'll also be surprised at the fruit born in your own life from this prayer--the fruit of understanding, cheerfulness, patience, helpfulness, and calmness. You'll realize that while you were praying for your husband, God changed your heart!"

2) Plan for your husband daily

Proverbs 21:5 ~ The plans of the diligent lead to profit as surely as haste leads to poverty.

"Here are some plans that will help you show your husband--and the watching world--that he is your highest human priority.

Plan special deeds of kindness
Plan special dinners
Plan special times alone
Plan special dinners alone
Plan an early bedtime for children
Plan to go to bed at the same time"

3) Prepare for your husband daily

Prepare the house - the goal is not perfection, but instead an impression of order and neatness.
Prepare your appearance
Prepare your greeting - ask God to give you just the right words--words that are positive and welcoming, words that focus on your husband and his frame of mind rather than yours. What you first say when your husband arrives home can set the tone for the entire evening.

"Prayer is the most important preparation of the heart."

4) Please your husband

"pleasing him means paying careful attention to his wants, his likes, and his dislikes"

5) Protect your time with your husband

"Consider the following as a general principle, no matter how many decades you've been married: If my husband is at home, I am at home."

6) Physically love your husband

1 Corinthians 7:3-5 ~ Let the husband render to his wife the affection due her, and likewise also the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. And likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Do not deprive one another except with consent for a time, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again so that Satan does not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.

7) Positively respond to your husband

"Imagine the lack of tension in a home where the husband's thoughts, decisions, and words are greeted so sweetly instead of met with resistance, negativism, or a lecture."

"you are more likely to be able to communicate when you are more positive to your husband's thoughts, dreams and ideas."

8) Praise your husband

"never speak critically or negatively about my husband to anyone."

"If you catch yourself speaking critically about your husband, quickly shut your mouth and do these three things:

Search your heart - something is out of sync in your heart because 'a heart of love draws a curtain of secrecy over the faults and failures of others...love does not gossip.'

Proverbs 10:12 ~ Hatred stirs up dissension, but love covers over all wrongs.

Seek a solution - devote yourself to prayer and if you need to speak up, do so after much preparation and with gracious, edifying, sweet speech.

Ephesians 4:29 ~ Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.
Proverbs 16:21-24 ~ The wise in heart will be called prudent, And sweetness of the lips increases learning. Understanding is a wellspring of life to him who has it. But the correction of fools is folly. The heart of the wise teaches his mouth, And adds learning to his lips. Pleasant words are like a honeycomb, Sweetness to the soul and health to the bones.

Set a goal - make a resolution not to speak destructively about your husband but to bless him at every opportunity."

"Blessing your husband in public--and in private-- is one way to sow seeds of love for him in your heart."

9) Pray always

"Take every opportunity throughout the day to ask God to enable you to be the kind of loving and supportive wife He wants you to be."

Mushroom Barley Soup

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Mushroom Barley Soup
1 medium onion, chopped
1 cup chopped celery
4 garlic cloves, minced
2 tsp olive oil
3/4 lb sliced fresh mushrooms
1 1/2 cups chopped carrots
4 cans beef broth
1 can diced tomatoes, undrained
1 bay leaf
1/2 tsp salt
1/2 tsp dried thyme
1/4 tsp pepper
1/4 tsp caraway seeds
1 cup barley
4 cups fresh baby spinach

In a large saucepan coated with cooking spray, cook the onion, celery and garlic in oil for 2 minutes. Add the mushrooms and carrots; cook 4 to 5 minutes longer or until mushrooms are tender.
Stir in the broth, tomatoes, seasonings and barley. Bring to a boil. Reduce heat; cover and simmer for 10 to 15 minutes. Stir in spinach; cook 5 minutes more or until spinach and barley are tender.

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Paul, Kathy and I enjoyed this flavor full soup. Definitely a do again for us!

Happy Birthday Dad!

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I'm so thankful to have you as my father. The older I get the more I realize what a blessing it was to be raised in a Christian home, being taught about God's love at a very young age. And now, I love being able to come to you with any Bible questions I have. You are always ready, willing and able to answer my questions and I greatly appreciate that. I pray today that you will feel loved and appreciated because you are LOVED and APPRECIATED. Happy Birthday Dad...I love you very much!

A Woman After God's Own Heart ~ Chapter 6

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A Heart That Follows

Ephesians 5:22 ~ Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.

"The next big item I noticed was I am on assignment from God to follow my husband's leadership."

"This heart attitude is lived out by leaving things to the judgment of another person and yielding or deferring to the opinion or authority of someone else."

Be Submissive One to Another

Ephesians 5:21 ~ Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.

"God's desire for us--married or single, young or old, male or female--is to honor, serve, and subject ourselves to one another."

1 Corinthians 16:16 ~ to submit to such people and to everyone who joins in the work and labors at it.
Ephesians 5:21 ~ Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.
Hebrews 13:17 ~ Obey them that have the rule over you, and submit yourselves: for they watch for your souls, as they that must give account, that they may do it with joy, and not with grief: for that is unprofitable for you.
James 4:7 ~ Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.
1 Peter 2:13-15 ~ Submit yourselves to every ordinance of man for the Lord's sake: whether it be to the king, as supreme; Or unto governors, as unto them that are sent by him for the punishment of evildoers, and for the praise of them that do well. For so is the will of God, that with well doing ye may put to silence the ignorance of foolish men:
1 Peter 2:18 ~ Servants, be subject to your masters with all fear; not only to the good and gentle, but also to the froward.
1 Peter 5:5 ~ Likewise, ye younger, submit yourselves unto the elder. Yea, all of you be subject one to another, and be clothed with humility: for God resisteth the proud, and giveth grace to the humble.

"A heart willing to follow and submit, dedicated to honoring and yielding to others, is to be the heart of God's people, His church, and His women."

1 Corinthians 11:3 ~ But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.

Proverbs 31:26 ~ She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.

"Author Elisabeth Elliot describes her father's headship in her childhood home. She write, " 'Head of the house' did not mean that our father barked out orders, threw his weight around, and demanded submission from his wife. It simply meant that he was the one finally responsible." "

"In the end, the husband is accountable to God for his leadership decisions, and we are accountable to God for how we follow that leadership."

"But God, the perfect Artist, designed marriage to be beautiful, natural, and functional by giving it a single head, the husband."

The Privilege of Choice

Ephesians 5:22 ~ Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.

"submission is a wife's choice. She decides whether or not to follow her husband. No one can do it for her, and no one can make her do it."

An Important Distinction

"The 'who' of submission for a wife is clear in Ephesians 5:22--'Wives, submit to your own husbands,' not to other people we admire and respect. And this is an important distinction."

1 Peter 3:1 ~ Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;

"It's important to mention here the one exception to following your husband's advice, and that is if he asks you to violate some teaching from God's Word. If he's asking you to do something illegal or immoral, go to a trusted pastor or counselor and follow the advice you receive there."

Ephesians 5:24 ~ Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.

"underneath God's call to us to submit lies a much deeper, more fundamental call to live a life of faith in God."

"God has instituted it, commanded it, and given me the faith in Him to be able to obey His word--and He is honored when I do."

How?

Dedicate your heart to honoring your husband
Remember to respect
Respond to your husband's words and actions positively
Ask of each word, act, and attitude, "Am I bending or bucking?"

"Your husband is your life mate. Whatever he is like, he is God's good and perfect gift to you, part of God's plan for your personal fulfillment and, more important, for your spiritual development. Your Christian character becomes evident each and every time you choose from your heart to bend, to yield, to honor, to submit, to follow your husband."

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Dear Heavenly Father,
Thank you for surrounding me with godly men and women that I may learn from, be accountable to, and humbly serve.
May I be a blessing to someone today.
In Jesus Name,
Amen

Goals for 2012

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Looking back at 2011 I am ashamed to say that I didn't follow through and stay consistent with the goals I set at the beginning of the year. To be honest, I totally forgot about them. I didn't set up reminders to blog progress updates and life took over and I just got so busy I forgot all about it. Now I wasn't a complete failure, I did mail out letters and I did get some decluttering/organizing done. However, I didn't track it and I wasn't as committed as I should have been.
So now before me is a new year and I am sitting here deciding if I should set some goals or not. Why set goals if I am not going to accomplish them. At the beginning I stay on track with them because it's new and exciting but then it fades and I feel like a failure as I have to admit that I didn't complete my goals.
Mike was always so good at setting a goal and keeping it no matter what. When he made the decision to do something he always accomplished it. I don't know if that was because of his military background or what but I've never known anyone as committed to his goals as he was.
To not be a disappointment again this year, I feel like not setting any goals for myself but then in the back of my mind I think of the saying "Aim at nothing and you'll hit it every time." I don't want to waste a year aimlessly living my life so I think I've decided to set some goals for myself.
I've created a spreadsheet, nothing to detailed or complicated, that will allow me to fill it out each day and then at the end of each week I am going to email my spreadsheet to a few ladies who I have asked to hold me accountable.
Here is a picture of the basic spreadsheet I created

I ask that you pray for me as I diligently work to accomplish this goal.
Happy New Year!

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Christmas Day

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Paul spoiled Kathy with 3 new Coach purses and a wallet

Paul with all his sweets... do you see the Ferrero Rocher and the KitKat?

A sweet family from church had us over for Christmas lunch...

smoked ribs. these ribs were so delicious!

so delicious that Paul used his fingers to eat them. If you know Paul, that is a HUGE deal!

This precious little boy is Evan.

Kathy crocheted this hat and sweater for Evan. We tried it on to see how it fit and it looks like he will have to grow into the sweater but I'm sure that won't take too long.

Hope everyone had a Merry Christmas and are ready for the new year to start!

TSMSS ~ A Passion for Thee

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A Passion for Thee

Set my heart, O dear Father,
On Thee, and Thee only,
Give me a thirst for Thy presence divine.
Lord, keep my focus on loving Thee wholly,
Purge me from earth; Turn my heart after Thine.

A passion for Thee;
O Lord, set a fire in my soul, and a thirst for my God.
Hear Thou my prayer, Lord, Thy power impart.
Not just to serve, but to love Thee with all of my heart.

Father fill with Thy Spirit, and fit me for service,
Let love for Christ every motive inspire,
Teach me to follow in selfless submission,
Be Thou my joy and my soul's one desire.

A passion for Thee;
O Lord, set a fire in my soul, and a thirst for my God.
Hear Thou my prayer, Lord, Thy power impart.
Not just to serve, but to love Thee with all of my heart.

A Woman After God's Own Heart ~ Chapter 5

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A Heart That Serves

Genesis 2:18 ~ And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.

"To begin our discussion we must realize that a woman after God's own heart is a woman who carefully cultivates a servant spirit, whether she is married or not. She desires to follow in the steps of Jesus, who 'did not come to be served, but to serve' (Matthew 20:28). Such following calls for lifelong attention to the heart attitude of serving."

"And if you are a married woman, that attitude and service starts at home with your family. And more specifically, with your husband. God has designed the wife to be her husband's helper."

"a helper is one who shares man's responsibilities, responds to his nature with understanding and love, and wholeheartedly cooperates with him in working out the plan of God."

"Realizing I am on assignment from God to help my husband opened my eyes."

"I am to be solidly behind him and supportive of him--helping him."

"This mind-set, this servant spirit, helps me be more like Christ as I esteem others--especially my husband--as better than myself (Philippians 2:3) and commit myself to service."

How?

"How can we develop a heart committed to service, a heart intent on emulating Christ in service to another person?"

Make a commitment to help your husband

"Let your words reflect your decision to help your husband, to be a team with him, and to make helping him the priority focus of your every day."

Focus on your husband

"What can I do for you today? What can I do to help you make better use of your time today?"

"Whether you are married or not, serving the people in your life is part of God's will for you. It pleases Him when you follow His will, benefits the lives of those you serve, and shows Christ to the world."

Ask of your actions, Will this help or hinder my husband?

"Is yours a heart committed to service, specifically to serving and helping your husband? What an abundance of blessings God has waiting for you when yours is such a heart!"

"As you and I promote the well being of our husbands--and of the multitude of other people God has placed in our lives--our service glorifies God."

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Dear Lord,

I don't know your plans for my future, whether or not you have a man for me to marry or if you will have me be single and focus on you. I ask that you would show me how I can serve others. Use me in this season of my life.

In Jesus Name,

Amen

A Woman After God's Own Heart ~ Chapter 4

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A Heart That Obeys

Acts 13:22 ~ After removing Saul, he made David their king. He testified concerning him: 'I have found David son of Jesse a man after my own heart; he will do everything I want him to do.'

"The heart God delights in is a heart that is compliant, cooperative, and responsive to Him and His commands--a heart that obeys."

"Two very different kinds of hearts - David and Saul

In his heart, David was willing to obey, but Saul was satisfied with merely external acts of sacrifice.
David served God. Saul served himself and did things his way.
David was concerned with following God's will, but Saul cared solely for his own will.
David's heart was centered on God, and Saul's was centered on Saul.
Even though David didn't always obey God, he had what mattered over the long haul--a heart after God. In sharp contrast, Saul's devotion to God was impulsive and sporadic.
Although David was well-known for his physical prowess and might as a warrior, he was humbly dependent upon God, trusting in Him and repeatedly acknowledging, "The Lord is the strength of my life" (Psalm 27:1). Saul, on the other hand, was proud. He relied on his own skill, his own wisdom, and judgment, and his arm of flesh."

"A heart committed to doing God's will is an important ingredient when it comes to living out our love for God."

How?

Proverbs 4:23-27 ~ Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it. Keep your mouth free of perversity; keep corrupt talk far from your lips. Let your eyes look straight ahead; fix your gaze directly before you. Give careful thought to the[a] paths for your feet and be steadfast in all your ways. Do not turn to the right or the left; keep your foot from evil.

"If we keep our hearts, if we diligently attend to them and guard them, then all of the issues, the actions, the 'ongoings and the out-goings' of life will be handled God's way."

Concentrate on doing what is right

Proverbs 3:6 ~ In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.

James 1:5 ~If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.

James 4:17 ~ Therefore to him that knoweth to do good, and doeth it not, to him it is sin.

Romans 14:23 ~But he who doubts is condemned if he eats, because his eating is not from faith; and whatever is not from faith is sin.

Cease doing what is wrong

Hebrews 2:18 ~ Because he himself suffered when he was tempted, he is able to help those who are being tempted.

Confess any wrong

1 John 1:8 ~ If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.

"So I call sin 'sin', and by doing so I train my heart to be more responsive to God's convicting Spirit."

1 John 1:9 ~ If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

Proverbs 28:13 ~He who covers his sins will not prosper, But whoever confesses and forsakes them will have mercy.

Clear up things with others

"Confession makes things right with God, but if we've hurt another person, we need to clear things up with that person too."

Continue on as soon as possible

Philippians 3:13-14 ~ Brethren, I do not count myself to have apprehended; but one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind and reaching forward to those things which are ahead, I press toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.

"Once we've acknowledged and dealt with our failure to follow God whole-heartedly, once we've addressed our acts of disobedience, you and I are to forget those things from the past and go on. Oh, we are to remember the lessons learned, but we are also to train our hearts to obey by obeying this command from Got to go on."

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My prayer today, dear Lord, is that I may have a heart like David, one willing to obey and serve you, concerned with following your will and having you be the center of my life.
Lord show me how to guard my heart daily. If I have unconfessed sin please Lord reveal it to me that I may confess it and be right before you.
And Lord if I have wronged someone and not dealt with it Biblically please open my eyes to it and give me the strength to do the right thing.
Lord I pray that I may keep my focus on the goal which is heavenward...not forgetting my past but also not dwelling on it.
Thank you Lord for loving me when I was so unlovely and for opening my eyes to the truth ~ your gift of salvation.
In Jesus name I pray, Amen

A Woman After God's Own Heart ~ Chapter 3

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A Heart Committed to Prayer

Psalm 121:1-2 ~ I lift up my eyes to the mountains— where does my help come from? My help comes from the LORD, the Maker of heaven and earth.

Count your blessings name them one by one

Blessing #1: A Deeper Relationship with God

Prayer increases faith
Prayer provides a place to unload burdens

John 16:33 ~ These things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace. In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world.

1 Peter 5:7 ~ Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you.

"Corrie ten Boom offers a vivid image of this privilege: As a camel kneels before his master to have him remove his burden, so kneel and let the Master take your burden."

Prayer teaches us that God is always near

"Oswald Chambers' words...'The purpose of prayer is to reveal the presence of God equally present all the time in every condition.'"

"Cultivating a heart of prayer is a sure way to experience God's presence."

Prayer trains us not to panic

Luke 18:1b ~ that men ought always to pray, and not to faint;

"Grant that it may not be in the power of any to rob me of the peace that results from a firm trust in Thee. Whenever crosses or troubles are met without, may all be well within. -- Susanna Wesley"

Prayer changes lives

Blessing #2: Greater Purity

"May I be incapable of rest or satisfaction of mind under a sense of Thy displeasure! Help me to clear accounts with thee... -- Susanna Wesley"

Blessing #3: Confidence in Making Decisions

"Make no decision without prayer."

"I wrote down every decision I needed to make and took each one to God in prayer."

Galatians 1:10 ~ Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God? Or am I trying to please people? If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ.

"A woman after God's own heart is a woman who will do His will (Acts 13:22)--not her own."

"Forbid that I should venture on any business without first begging Thy direction and assistance. -- Susanna Wesley"

Blessing #4: Improved Relationships

"You cannot think about yourself and others at the same time"
"You cannot hate the person you are praying for"

Matthew 5:44 ~ But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;

"You cannot neglect the person you are praying for"
"An end to self-centeredness, the dissolution of ill will, and an end to neglect--these results of praying for someone will inevitably improve our relationship with him or her."

Blessing #5: Contentment

"Over and over again, day after day, I placed everything in God's hands, letting it be His job to meet those needs--and another prayer principle was born: If He doesn't meet it, you didn't need it!"

Psalm 84:11 ~ For the LORD God is a sun and shield: the LORD will give grace and glory: no good thing will he withhold from them that walk uprightly.

Blessing #6: God-Confidence

"When we are filled with God's goodness, we are confidently and effectively able to share His love and joy."

Psalm 100:2 ~ Serve the LORD with gladness: come before his presence with singing.

Psalm 40:8 ~ I delight to do thy will, O my God: yea, thy law is within my heart.

Blessing #7: The Ministry of Prayer

"...my infant prayers could make a difference in history!"

"Coming face-to-face with the fact that prayer is a ministry ended my feelings of uselessness and ineffectiveness."

"My heart took flight as I joined God in the vital ministry of prayer!"

"I know that as you bow your knees and heart before God and begin cultivating a heart of prayer, you will taste and know that the Lord is good (Psalm 34:8)."

How?

"Start a prayer log to record requests and responses as you travel your own personal journey of prayer."
"Set aside some time each day to linger with the Lord in prayer and remember that something is better than nothing. Begin small--and watch for the mighty effects!"
"Pray always (Ephesians 6:18) and in all places, enjoying God's presence with you wherever you go (Joshua 1:9)."
"Pray faithfully for others -- including your enemies (Matthew 5:44)"
"Take seriously the powerful privilege of the ministry of prayer."

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Dear Heavenly Father,

May I be more burdened to lift up others before you Lord. Especially those who are living a hopeless life without you. My heart aches for those who have not accepted your gift of salvation, repented of their sins and followed you.

May I take the time daily to pray!

Pray for our country and its leadership, pray for the people of the church, pray for family and friends, pray for wisdom, guidance and growth, pray for our missionaries, pray for healing and health, pray for ministries, and pray for the lost.

In your son's name I pray,

Amen

A Woman After God's Own Heart ~ Chapter 2

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A Heart Abiding in God's Word

"Roots make all the difference in the health of a plant, and their presence or absence ultimately becomes known to all. The plant either flourishes or fails, thrives or dies, blossoms or withers. The health of anything--whether a garden plant or a heart devoted to God--reflects what is going on (or not going on!) underground."

Roots are unseen --

"If God is going to be first in our hearts and the "Ultimate Priority" of our lives, we must develop a root system anchored deep in Him."

"only one-seventh of an iceberg is visible above the surface, and any wise fisherman knows not to get too close because underneath spreads the other six-sevenths. What was visible to the eye--only a fraction of the huge, icy mass--was enough to evoke fear, awe, and respect in any sailor. And that's what you and I want for our lives. We want what other people see of our lives--public portion--to stir up this kind of awe and wonder. We want our strength in public to be explained by what goes on in private between us and God."

"the truth is that "the greater the proportion of your day -- of your life--spent hidden in quiet, in reflection, in prayer, [in study,] in scheduling, in preparation, the greater will be the effectiveness, the impact, the power, of the part of your life that shows.""

"The impact of ministry to people will be in direct proportion to the time you spend with God."

Roots are for taking in --

"When we spend time with Christ, He supplies us with strength and encourages us in the pursuit of His ways."

"the great exchange--Away from the world and hidden from public view, I exchange my weariness for His strength, my weakness for His power, my darkness for His light, my problems for His solutions, my burdens for His freedom, my frustrations for His peace, my turmoil for His calm, my hopes for His promises, my afflictions for His balm of comfort, my questions for His answers, my confusion for His knowledge, my doubt for His assurance, my nothingness for His awesomeness, the temporal for the eternal, and the impossible for the possible."

Roots are for storage --

Jeremiah 17:8 ~

They will be like a tree planted by the water that sends out its roots by the stream. It does not fear when heat comes; its leaves are always green. It has no worries in a year of drought and never fails to bear fruit.

"Roots deep into God's truth are definitely needed as reserves when times are rough."

Roots are for support --

"Yes, the support of a healthy root system is vital for standing strong in the Lord!"

"When we have a solid root system, we too can gain the strength needed for standing firm in spite of the pressures of life!"

1) Develop the habit of drawing near to God
2) Design a personal time for drawing near to God - When, Where, What aids?
3) Dream of being a woman after God's heart

"God will take you as far as you want to go, as fast as you want to go."

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Dear Lord I pray that I may grow roots firm in you and your word, that I may not be blown away by the trials of life. Lord may I grow deeper in you as I develop a consistent quiet time spent in your word, in prayer and in song. May my life be a reflection of you, that when people look at me they don't see me but they see you.
In Jesus name I pray,
Amen!

Christmas Eve Service

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We gathered at the Snyder's home for our Christmas Eve service. After lots of singing and a short message we enjoyed some food and fellowship. Although I have to say I think the highlight for everyone was the precious little baby boys in our church family.

A Woman After God's Own Heart ~ Chapter 1

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A Heart Devoted to God

"I want my life-indeed each and every day of it, each and every minute of it-to count."

"I had been thinking earthly thoughts--human thoughts, physical thoughts, worldly thoughts--rather than thoughts of faith. My perspective was off! We as Christians are to walk by faith, not by sight (2 Corinthians 5:7)"

"She has chosen with her whole heart to seek to live her life for God. She loved God, worshiped God, walked with God, served God, and looked forward to being with Him in eternity."

"knew true inner peace and joy as she nurtured a heart of devotion to God."

"God knows the desires of my heart--indeed, He has put them there (Psalm 37:4)! He knows the amount of daydreaming-and praying--I do about becoming the kind of woman He wants me to be."

"But God's peace became mine as I was reminded one more time that when, day by day, I choose the one thing necessary--which shall never be taken away from me-my life too makes a difference. God wants my heart--all of it--and my devotion. When I choose to give it to Him, when I choose to live totally for Him, He makes it count. He wants to be Number One in my life, the priority above all priorities!"

"how important it is to choose to love God and follow after Him...with a whole heart...each day...as long as we live. Every day counts when we are devoted to God!"

"Mary, a woman after God's own heart, made the choice that indicated her heart's devotion: She knew it was important to cease her busyness, stop all activity, and set aside secondary things in order to focus wholly on the Lord. Unlike her sister, who was so busy doing things for the Lord that she failed to spend time with Him, Mary put worship at the top of her to-do list."

1) Choose God's ways at every opportunity

Proverbs 3:6 ~ In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.

"Choosing God and His ways deepens our devotion to Him."

Proverbs 31:30 ~ Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.

2) Commit yourself to God daily

"Our devotion to God is strengthened when we offer Him a fresh commitment each day."

F.B. Meyer's seven rules for living:"Make a daily, definite, audible consecration of yourself to God. Say it out loud: 'Lord, today I give myself anew to you'"

Betty Scott Stamp, a China Inland Mission worker - her daily prayer:

Lord, I give up all my own plans and purposes, all my own desires and hopes, and accept Thy will for my life. I give myself, my time, my all, utterly to Thee to be Thine forever. Fill me and seal me with Thy Holy Spirit. Use me as Thou wilt, send me where Thou wilt, work out Thy whole will in my life at any cost, now and forever.

3) Cultivate a hot heart

Revelation 3:15-16 ~ I know your deeds, that you are neither cold nor hot; I wish that you were cold or hot. So because you are lukewarm, and neither hot nor cold, I will spit you out of My mouth.

"Our heart for God should be like a boiling pot. Our heart should be characterized by God-given and intense passion for our Lord. After all, when a teakettle is boiling on your stove, you know it. It sputters and steams. It actually hops up and down and jiggles from side to side, empowered by its violent heat. Hot to the touch, it shares the heat that is within. There is no way to ignore its fire. Likewise, we should be fiery and excited about God, and God will fuel our fire."

Luke 1:49 ~ For the Mighty One has done great things for me; And holy is His name.

Psalm 96:3 ~ Tell of His glory among the nations, His wonderful deeds among the peoples.

Psalm 107:2 ~ Let the redeemed of the LORD say so, whom he hath redeemed from the hand of the enemy

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Dear Heavenly Father,
I want to have a heart on fire for you. May I never be content with being lukewarm. Lord, today I give myself a new to you. My desire is that each and every day of my life count for you dear Lord. Use me, mold me, guide me, teach me.
In Jesus name I pray,
Amen

Merry CHRISTmas!

2011-12-25T05:00:00.000-08:00

TSMSS ~ O Holy Night

2011-12-24T08:11:00.000-08:00

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A Woman After God's Own Heart

2011-12-23T05:00:00.000-08:00

I really enjoy reading books written by Elizabeth George. I find that they are easy to read and comprehend, yet they are very convicting to me.

I am going to keep notes on my blog so they are easily accessible for me to refer back to them.

I borrowed the book A Woman After God's Own Heart by Elizabeth George from a friend so while I'm dog sitting I'm going to read through it and take good notes.

Each chapter's notes will be a separate post on my blog. I warn you now it may just be quotes of things that touched me while reading. I encourage you to read the book for yourself. It will be a HUGE blessing!

I would love to hear from you if you've read this book and want to share some of your thoughts on how it has changed you and your personal walk with the Lord.

God Bless!

One Verse

2011-12-22T17:14:00.000-08:00

Today I came across this website called One Verse. As I read about it I was reminded how blessed I am to have a Bible in my own language that I can read. Truth be told I probably have 3 or 4 Bible's that are different translations but still they are all in my language.

I know that probably everyone has gotten their Christmas gifts already but I thought that their Gift-a-Verse program was a wonderful idea. We in America have so much stuff. Most of the time, we don't even appreciate the things we do have. This would be a wonderful tradition to start as a family. Buy a verse in the Bible to be translated in another language.

I encourage you to check out their website and even if you don't give this year, keep it in mind as a new tradition for next year. Also, be praying for this organization. That they may be blessed to complete the translation of the Bible in many languages in 2012.

To God Be The Glory!

Meet Mr. Beasley

2011-12-22T09:49:00.000-08:00

This is Mr. Beasley. I am taking care of him through the holidays and I'm having so much fun with him. He is an older dog so he doesn't do much but eat and sleep. Every so often he gets a burst of energy and he runs around the coffee table. He makes me laugh because it's so unexpected when it happens. He is just so cute! Well now you know how I am spending my holiday, how are you spending yours?

My Relationship

2011-12-21T10:54:00.000-08:00

I have been thinking a lot about my personal relationship with God. I've been meditating on Revelation 3:15-16 that says I know thy works, that thou art neither cold nor hot: I would thou wert cold or hot. So then because thou art lukewarm, and neither cold nor hot, I will spue thee out of my mouth.

My desire is to have a heart on fire for the Lord and not to become lukewarm.

I am thinking of using my blog to track and to share what I am reading and what I am learning. I don't communicate that well with my words and I am not a superior writer like most who have blogs but I feel like my blog needs to take this new turn.

To be honest, I have a hard time being "real" on my blog because I worry I may say something wrong. But my focus is wrong because I should not be worried of what other's think, I should be focused on God and God alone. When I am weak He shows me His strength. Through my weakness He is glorified!

II Corinthians 12:9-10 And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me. Therefore I take pleasure in infirmities, in reproaches, in necessities, in persecutions, in distresses for Christ's sake: for when I am weak, then am I strong."

So I hope you stay with me as I take my blog in a new direction. I pray you see Christ reflected in my life.

Second Annual Christmas Banquet

2011-12-19T19:47:00.000-08:00

December 3rd we had our 2nd Annual Christmas Banquet. It was such a wonderful evening.

Cute picture of a sweet couple.

Mr George is an amazing man full of wisdom. It's always a blessing when he is at Sunday School.

Miss Betty is always dressed so beautifully!

We had our traditional white elephant gift exchange. It's always so much fun to play and see what everyone brings!

Our guest speaker and his wife.

I was trying to get a good picture of Crystal and her baby belly but I wasn't able to get a good one. Early morning after this picture was taken she had her precious little baby bow.

There was a team of young adults from Camp Ironwood who came to bless us by serving, signing and watching the children.

I love this picture. Judd was such a character.

They did a fabulous job playing and singing!

I am normally the one taking pictures but someone snapped this picture of me so I thought I would share.

TSMSS ~ The First Noel

2011-12-17T08:12:00.000-08:00

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Babysitting Fun

2011-12-15T07:56:00.000-08:00

Before my week in London I spent 4 days watching these precious girls. Their Dad was out of town on business and their Mom was heading to a Bible course on counseling women.

They loved playing outside. This park was right across from their house so it was nice to be able to walk across and let them play every day....but...

not until school work was done.

My last day with them we had a picnic at the park. The girls thought it was such a great idea to eat outside. They ate quickly and even got some play time in before going back home to finish school time.

At the end of each day, when the girls got in bed they were out... FAST!

TSMSS ~ Mary Did You Know

2011-12-10T08:05:00.000-08:00

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Ecclesiastes 3:11a

2011-12-08T21:41:00.001-08:00

I went over to a friends house and had a fun day of stamping. My dear friend has an awesome craft room and we have great fun when we can stamp together. This is the card I made while at her house.

A Candymaker's Witness

2011-12-07T05:31:00.000-08:00

A Candymaker in Indiana wanted to make a candy that would be a witness, so he made the Christmas Candy Cane. He incorporated several symbols for the birth, ministry, and death of Jesus Christ.

He began with a stick of pure white, hard candy. White to symbolize the Virgin Birth and the sinless nature of Jesus, and hard to symbolize the Solid Rock, the foundation of the Church, and firmness of the promises of God.

The candymaker made the candy in the form of a "J" to represent the precious name of Jesus, who came to earth as our Savior. It could also represent the staff of the "Good Shepherd" with which he reaches down into the ditches of the world to lift out the fallen lambs who, like all sheep, have gone astray.

Thinking that the candy was somewhat plain, the candymaker stained it with red stripes. He used three small stripes to show the stripes of the scourging Jesus received by which we are healed. The large red stripe was for the blood shed by Christ on the cross so that we could have the promise of eternal live.

Unfortunately, the candy became knows as a Candy Cane - a meaningless decoration seen at Christmas time. But the meaning is still there for those who "have eyes to see and ears to hear". I pray that this symbol will again be used to witness To The Wonder of Jesus and His Great Love that came down at Christmas and remains the ultimate and dominant force in the universe today.

Paris

2011-12-06T06:00:00.000-08:00

Kathy planned a day in Paris for me. She had been before with Paul but since I had never been there she booked an all day tour for us. The day started early as we had to be at the train station at 6:30.

It took two and a half hours to get to Paris from London using this EuroStar train. Very interesting ride since part of it we were traveling under water.

The first thing we did was get off the train and onto a bus that was going to show us around. It was market day and they had tons of produce out to sell. It all looked so good!

I was so impressed by the detail work on their buildings

The tour included lunch at the Eiffel tower restaurant.

It was a two course meal. You were to pick a started and entree or an entree and dessert. Then one person per family went downstairs to put the order in.

Kathy came back with this cute basket with our starter salads and bread. The entrees would be served to us when they were ready. It was an interesting way of doing it but it worked.

Then after sight seeing, a ride on the Seine river and lunch at the Eiffel tower they took us to the Louvre Museum. Kathy and I spent our time at the shopping area because the Louvre tour was extra and we didn't have enough time to really take in all the Louvre has to offer. Kathy and Paul had spent an entire day at the Louvre and only got through 1/4 of it so we knew a few hours wasn't going to be enough.

The shopping area had several jewelry stores, book store, and gadget store along with an Apple store. The food area had a Starbucks, McDonalds, and a few other eating places.

Here I am inside the shopping area, right in front of the inverted pyramid. This was our meeting place for the tour. We got there early and decided to take some pictures.

This concludes my trip and my fun Thanksgiving week with Kathy. Thanks again Kathy for taking me on your well earned trip.

London

2011-12-05T05:03:00.000-08:00

Kathy earned a trip through work so Thanksgiving week Kathy and I headed to London. We had a fabulous week in London along with one day in Paris.

I loved seeing the flower market on the side of the street. The flowers were so colorful, vibrant and beautiful!

I thoroughly enjoyed eating fresh bread every day.

Olive sourdough bread was one of the unique breads I tried and it was so good I want to try my hand at making some.

Our hotel was across the street from the Victoria and Albert Museum so we spent some times inside taking lots of pictures....here is just one.

They had a winter wonderland set up for Christmas and I noticed this zamboni. I took the picture in memory of Mike.

The London Eye was awesome to ride on. It's amazing how much you could see.

Me inside the London Eye capsule.

Big Ben

Of course we had to eat some fish and chips while we were there.

We were waiting for the double decker bus with the open top to pick us up. We rode on it almost the entire day.

Harrods - the largest, most famous store.

I love the different words they use.... Rubbish instead of trash

This was our meal on Thanksgiving day.

Kathy got sick half way through our trip so we visited the pharmacy often to get medicine and lots of cough drops.

On our last day in London we enjoyed High Tea with yummy little finger sandwiches, scones, cheesecake and a big pot of Earl Grey tea.

Tomorrow I will post pictures from our day in Paris.

2011-12-04T08:32:00.000-08:00

The greatest man in History, Jesus, had no servants, yet they called him Master,

had no degree, yet they called him Teacher,

had no medicines yet they called him Healer,

had no army, yet kings feared him,

won no military battles, yet he conquered the world,

committed no crime, yet they crucified him..

He was buried in a tomb, yet he lives today.

HE is the REASON for the SEASON.

TSMSS ~ Hallelujah!

2011-12-03T07:00:00.000-08:00

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Where's the line to Jesus?

2011-12-02T08:30:00.001-08:00

A friend of mine sent me this video yesterday. This time of year everyone is so focused on gifts and Santa that all too often the true reason for celebrating Christmas is forgotten.

Let's not forget that it's God who gave us the ultimate gift of salvation through the death of Jesus Christ.

Ephesians 2:8-9 For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: not of works, lest any man should boast.

2011-12-01T04:19:00.000-08:00

TSMSS ~ In Christ Alone

2011-11-26T08:03:00.000-08:00

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TSMSS ~ Blessings

2011-11-19T06:30:00.000-08:00

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2011-11-13T09:29:00.000-08:00

TSMSS ~ While I'm Waiting

2011-11-12T06:30:00.000-08:00

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The Knot Prayer

2011-11-10T04:30:00.000-08:00

I recently found this blog called God's Gracefulness. If you have never heard of this blog before I suggest you check it out and even sign up for their daily devotional feed.

They recently posted this prayer/poem and I thought it was wonderful so I wanted to share it on my blog.

The Knot Prayer

Dear God,

Please untie the knots that are in my mind, my heart, and my life.

Remove the have nots, cannots, and do nots.

Erase the will nots, may nots, might nots that may find a home in my heart.

Release me from the could nots, would nots, should nots that obstruct my life.

And most of all, Dear God, I ask that you remove from my mind, my heart, and my life all of the "am nots" that I have allowed to hold me back.

Especially the thought that I am not good enough.

Amen.

- Unknown

The Romantic

2011-11-09T05:01:00.000-08:00

I was just thinking today what a romantic Mike was. He didn't wait for Valentine's day to show how much he loved me. He would do things often. Sometimes they were big, expensive things like surprise trips...but countless times it was the little inexpensive or free things that he did that showed his love to me. Like these logs he placed into a heart shape. He was such a sweet, thoughtful, loving, encouraging husband!

P365 ~ Not sure what week

2011-11-08T04:30:00.000-08:00

I just found this post sitting in my drafts. I thought I had posted this but somehow I missed it so here goes. Better late than never.

Journal/Notebooks I decorated to sell at the ladies retreat

Kathy's friend Brandee gave us a huge collection of Little's Pet Shop toys to give away to someone at church. Before we gave it away Kathy set it all up at home and got a picture of it all. There were so many pieces.

When Maureen was here visiting we went to get our famous ice cream pedicures. We also invited Melissa (from church) to celebrate her birthday. We had a fun and relaxing girls day.

We took Maureen to the outlets and of course, went shopping at Coach.

I made these Thanksgiving cards. I thought they turned out GREAT!

I've been trying to keep up on my walking. I may not walk every day but I am now walking 3 miles at a time.

This was a free bottle of water we got at the grocery store. I thought it was quite fancy for being water.

Kathy, Maureen and I went to Top of the World restaurant. It was delicious, unique and fabulous.

Fall 2011 Ladies Retreat

2011-11-07T15:59:00.000-08:00

This is the wonderful group of women from our church who I had the privileged to go to a retreat with. It was great opportunity to get to know each one of them a little better.

They had some games planned for us to participate in as a church group.

Dress a goat with the shirt and hat.

Knife throwing

Matchbox car obstacle course

Such concentration

We also had craft time and Miss Shirley and Miss Betty were kind enough to make me some pumpkin decorations.

Martha decided to to make one also.

They even had a mechanical bull. Jen did an awesome job on the bull. She was a natural!

Miss Betty didn't ride the bull but she wanted a picture on it.

Roping time...

Somehow I got roped into trying.

I love Tammi's expression!

This is the example of the cake pop we made... mine didn't end up looking anything like this. I learned that cake pops are much harder to make than I thought.

The Bible study sessions were challenging, encouraging and a blessing to me. I can't wait for the next retreat.

TSMSS ~ The Bible Stands

2011-11-05T06:24:00.000-07:00

During my devotions this past week I pulled out a hymnal I had at home. I wanted to find a song to sing and possibly even try to memorize. I came across The Bible Stands written and put to music by Haldor Lillenas. Listen to the music and read through the words. May be a blessing to you as it was to me.

The Bible Stands

The Bible stands like a rock undaunted
Mid the raging storms of time;
Its pages burn with the truth eternal,
And they glow with a light sub-lime.

CHORUS
The Bible stands though the hills may tumble,
It will firmly stand when the earth shall crumble;
I will plant my feet on its firm foundation,
For the Bible stands.

The Bible stands like a mountain tow'ring
Far above the works of men;
Its truth by none ever was refuted,
And destroy it they never can.

The Bible stands and it will forever,
When the world has passed away;
By inspiration it has been given,
All its precepts I will obey.

The Bible stands every test we give it,
For its Author is divine;
By grace alone I expect to live it,
And to prove it and make it mine.

Pampered Chef Party

2011-11-03T06:47:00.000-07:00

Kathy and I had a Pampered Chef party on Saturday. It was a great day of fellowship with some sweet ladies from our church. Sharing just a few pictures from that fun day.

A Ken and Barbie Hawaii Wedding

2011-11-02T09:25:00.000-07:00

These pictures from the beautiful wedding of Lana and Joel are long overdue but alas here they are. Congratulations again Lana!

TSMSS ~ I Need Thee Every Hour

2011-10-29T07:39:00.000-07:00

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TSMSS ~ I Love to Tell the Story

2011-10-22T09:50:00.000-07:00

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My Walk

2011-10-18T11:25:00.000-07:00

Psalm 19:1 ~ The heavens declare the glory of God; the skies proclaim the work of his hands.

This morning I woke up eager go to walking. The skies were a perfect blue, not a cloud in sight. The air was cool and crisp. It was just gorgeous. My three mile walk went by quickly as I spent the time praying and admiring God's beauty!

Update

2011-10-17T19:42:00.000-07:00

I wanted to post a quick update to let you all know I'm still here. I know I haven't done a good job with posting but life has been busy. I'm not complaining at all. I am really enjoying everything I'm doing, I just feel bad I haven't been staying up to date with my blog.

I'm not a great writer but I know that family likes to read what is going on here with us in Las Vegas so I will try to do better at posting something, even if it's just a small update.

I hate to not complete my Project 365 since I did commit to it but I have been feeling overwhelmed with getting it done and I also feel like I am posting the same type pictures but it's not really giving a good example of what I am up to these days.

Last week was baby week. An old friend of Kathy's came over on Tuesday night for dinner. Of course I spent the evening spoiling Dylan their youngest who is 3 weeks old.
Thursday night we took a meal to one of Kathy's coworkers who had a little one week old baby girl for me to love on.

To end my week I co-hosted a baby shower for two sweet ladies from our church. There were two ladies with babies who attended so I was able to hold yet another baby.

I love babies...they are so precious...truly a blessing from the Lord!

Now I am getting ready to go to a retreat with ladies from our church. I'm looking forward to getting to know the ladies better. I'll give you an update when I get back.

TSMSS ~ Rock of Ages

2011-10-15T09:48:00.000-07:00

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TSMSS ~ What a Friend We Have In Jesus

2011-10-08T09:45:00.000-07:00

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Walking

2011-10-04T05:58:00.000-07:00

I am participating in a fundraiser walk this weekend. I know it's last minute but if you want to donate to the cause it would be greatly appreciated.

TSMSS ~ Turn Your Eyes Upon Jesus

2011-10-01T09:41:00.000-07:00

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TSMSS ~ Because He Lives I Can Face Tomorrow

2011-09-24T09:39:00.000-07:00

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Heaven

2011-09-20T23:19:00.000-07:00

I got a call from my Mom this morning letting me know that Ron Guiles passed away Saturday.
Pastor Guiles help a special place in our hearts because he was the one that baptized Mike after he made a personal decision to give his life to God. My heart is sad and yet I am rejoicing because Pastor Guiles is now in Heaven worshiping our Lord and Savior.

Philippians 1:21 For to me to live is Christ, and to die is gain.

P365 ~ Week 38

2011-09-18T21:44:00.000-07:00

Sunday - We were enjoying some beautiful weather and wanted to take in a bike ride but Paul wanted Kathy to ride on the pegs of his bike.

Monday - I received this sweet card in the mail from a dear friend in GA. It made me smile... the inside said "I hope you're my friend forever - because that's how long I'm going to need you"

Tuesday - Enjoyed a day of cool weather, cloudy skies and some rain.

Wednesday - working on making lots of cards. I needed a Congratulations card so I made a dozen of them to add to the pile of cards to sell. (sorry for the upside down picture)

Thursday - Since July 1st I've been trying to wake up early and walk at least a mile. I don't always walk every day but I do try.

Friday - As I was walking in the morning the moon was just so beautiful... i tried to capture the beauty but this picture doesn't do it justice at all.

Saturday - We got a great deal on pears so we bought a bunch and made some pear sauce. It turned out so yummy I wish we would have bought more.

I finally got this posted on time so now I am heading over to check out Sara's blog to link up.

TSMSS ~ Lord I Lift Your Name On High

2011-09-17T09:36:00.000-07:00

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P365 ~ Catch Up!

2011-09-15T23:28:00.000-07:00

I know I have several weeks of catching up to do and for that I am truly sorry...Be warned this is going to be a long post but hopefully I can get all caught up and ready for Sunday's post of this weeks pictures.

These three young men were coming from California where they were camp counselors. On their trip back to college in South Carolina the stopped at our church on Sunday. It was a blessing to us as they sang and played the piano and guitar. These were talented young men who love and serve the Lord.

We also had a missions team from a church in Pennsylvania. This couple had an amazing testimony they shared with us.

The missions team blessed us with singing.

He shared is testimony also. A touching, emotional one.

I went with Lana to her dress fittings. The dress was amazing... and of course she looked totally beautiful in the dress.

While grocery shopping Kathy found these Cape Gooseberries. We didn't know what they were but Kathy loves trying new fruits and vegetables so we bought them.

This is what they look like on the inside. Interesting little berries. Not really even sure how to explain what they taste like... they pop with sweet, tangy flavor. Somewhat like a grape but with a different texture. Like I said it's hard to describe.

Recently found out there is an Islands restaurant here in Las Vegas. I remember an Islands restaurant in South Florida probably about 12 or more years ago... it was delicious so I had to try this one out as soon as I found it. I have to say, I actually think it might rank higher than Red Robin for me. Now that's saying something!

I've been working on making cards and getting them ready for a sale at the end of October.

Warning: this is a very deceiving picture :-) Kathy and I went to get pedicures before we went to Hawaii for the wedding. Mom wont have anything to do with pedicures but we got her to sit in the massage chair with us. That's the first step. Maybe next time she will break down and get a pedicure. We shall see!

One of Kathy's customers told her about an Argentine bakery/restaurant downtown. As soon as she heard about it she made plans to go. Let's just say I am glad they are so far away from us and only open during the week. If it were open on the weekends we would be there every Saturday.

I made these cards for Lana. She wanted to make welcome cards for everyone and have the itinerary for the weekend.

Mom and I made it to Hawaii and Kathy and Paul surprised us with a limo to pick us up.

This was the condo that Kathy and Paul stayed at and all I can say is I really loved it! I loved everything about it. It was such an awesome condo!

Kathy made reservations for Top of Waikiki restaurant. It is a revolving restaurant so you can see all around Waikiki while you eat.

We spent a few hours one day relaxing and reading our books by the pool. It was a beautiful day... overcast and cool.

Mom and I enjoyed coffee at a local coffee shop. It was delicious Hawaiian coffee!

Our hotel was one block away from McDonalds. We passed it every day when we walked to Kathy and Paul's condo. I had to take a picture of their local special. Interesting...spam and rice for breakfast.

We visited Pearl Harbor. What an amazing place.

I have to say our trip to Hawaii was wonderful but many times I thought how much Mike would have loved it there. He would have appreciated the Pearl Harbor memorial. He would have loved living there... driving a limo around.

Well, I think I got you all caught up now. Hope to get back to posting each week we will see how I do.

Good Night All!

Also - stay tunned for some pictures of the fabulous wedding in Hawaii!

Wordless Wednesday

2011-09-14T19:54:00.000-07:00

I totally forgot about this picture. In 2006 Mike suprised me with a weekend trip to Rock City and Ruby Falls. We were eating lunch and Mike loved making me laugh. He always said his job was to make me laugh each day, and he did a great job!

Never Forget

2011-09-11T08:04:00.000-07:00

Let's remember to keep our country and it's leaders in our prayers.

God Bless America!

TSMSS ~ He Will Make a Way

2011-09-10T09:33:00.000-07:00

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TSMSS ~ Fill Up My Cup

2011-09-03T06:16:00.000-07:00

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Psalm 23

2011-08-28T13:31:00.000-07:00

For our family cruise in September 2007 Dad asked each of the men in the family to prepare a devotional so they could each take one night and lead devotions.

In going through some documents on the computer I found the devotional Mike prepared. I love finding things like this. It just makes my heart smile.

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Psalm 23 – God as our Protector and Provider in Life

1The LORD is my shepherd; I shall not want.

We are His sheep
I know the Lord will care for me – we commit our needs to Him
Jesus was speaking to the people of Bethany in Matthew 21:22 ~ And all things, whatsoever ye shall ask in prayer, believing, ye shall receive.

2He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters.

God creates situations, eagerness and desires.
The water refreshes us – experienced by David in Psalm 42:1 ~ As the hart panteth after the water brooks, so panteth my soul after thee, O God

3He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name's sake.

The Lord leads us slowly, straight and with purpose
Jesus addressing the crowds in Matthew 11:28 -- Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest
Slowly: The shepherd maintains a pace for us to walk with Him
Straight: He will not lead us astray
Purpose: He does not waste time or energy
For His name’s sake: We can depend on God to do what He promised

4Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.

You’ve heard the phrase: “He or she is scared of their own shadow”
We imagine the worst and not the best
In John 8:12 -- Then spake Jesus again unto them, saying, I am the light of the world: he that followeth me shall not walk in darkness, but shall have the light of life.
Fear: We don’t know what will happen. We do know that He will provide our needs.
Comfort: Our daily walk with Christ. The rod protects us and the staff directs us by tending to His flock.

5Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over.

Preparest: refers to a continuous action. The Lord prepares food daily because we get hungry daily.
Enemies: To show God’s daily provision and care
Oil: The valued guest received the best seat at the table – and honored with oil for healing
Cup: Abundance in our salvation
The psalmist writes in Psalm 116:13 – I will take the cup of salvation, and call upon the name of the LORD

6Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever.

Goodness: He loves us – keeps us in His fold
Paul in his letters to the Romans 2:4 - Or despisest thou the riches of his goodness and forbearance and longsuffering; not knowing that the goodness of God leadeth thee to repentance?
Mercy: He offers forgiveness and grace
Paul writes in 1 Timothy 1:15-16 -- This is a faithful saying, and worthy of all acceptation, that Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners; of whom I am chief. Howbeit for this cause I obtained mercy, that in me first Jesus Christ might shew forth all longsuffering, for a pattern to them which should hereafter believe on him to life everlasting.
Dwell: Enjoying God’s presence and protection with peace and security

In conclusion: I personally want to ask for forgiveness of anything that I may have said or action performed. I love you all as my family.

Memorized

2011-08-27T20:46:00.000-07:00

Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost. ~ Acts 2:38

2011-08-24T09:05:00.000-07:00

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2011-08-22T19:45:00.001-07:00

TSMSS ~ Open Our Eyes

2011-08-20T05:21:00.000-07:00

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God is so Good!

2011-08-19T06:06:00.000-07:00

After posting about my chicken idea I received an email that Mike's coworkers were interested in doing something in honor of Mike. Everyone Mike worked with knew he had chickens because he kept an excel spreadsheet with his egg count. Yes, you read that right, Mike had a spreadsheet for the egg count... that is just the kind of guy he was...organized and detailed. Because he loved having chickens so much he enjoyed sharing the spreadsheet with his coworkers. So when they heard about my idea they loved it.

Over 20 chickens will be sent to Asia. Along with the chickens, the gospel will be shared. Praise the Lord! Thank you to all who gave!

For some other wonderful news but on a totally different topic - In 12 days I will be going to Hawaii! A friend is getting married there and Kathy and Paul already had their plans to go. Yesterday I spent the day with the bride to be running errands for the wedding and it really got me thinking. So I asked Kathy to look at prices for me. I thought for sure the prices would be outrages but instead she found an awesome deal for me and Mom to be able to fly out August 30th and stay until September 5th. I can't believe it. Honestly, I am still in shock!

God is sooooo good!

Memories

2011-08-18T06:58:00.000-07:00

One Year Ago Today...

2011-08-17T00:01:00.000-07:00

.... my life changed forever as God called Mike home to glory.

The journey into God's presence requires a departure, and that brings sorrow for those who remain. But what joy to think of his arrival into the very arms of a loving Heavenly Father.

I Corinthians 2:9 ~ But as it is written, Eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, neither have entered into the heart of man, the things which God hath prepared for them that love him.

I can't believe...

2011-08-16T05:51:00.000-07:00

...that tomorrow will be one year since Mike went to be with the Lord. I wanted to share some scripture that has kept me going this past year. To God be the Glory!

Deuteronomy 33:27 ~ The eternal God is thy refuge, and underneath are the everlasting arms: and he shall thrust out the enemy from before thee; and shall say, Destroy them.

Psalm 48:14 ~ For this God is our God for ever and ever: he will be our guide even unto death.

Psalm 49:15 ~ But God will redeem my soul from the power of the grave: for he shall receive me. Selah.

Psalm 17:8 ~ Keep me as the apple of the eye, hide me under the shadow of thy wings

Psalm 18:2 ~ The LORD is my rock, and my fortress, and my deliverer; my God, my strength, in whom I will trust; my buckler, and the horn of my salvation, and my high tower.

Psalm 28:7 ~ The LORD is my strength and my shield; my heart trusted in him, and I am helped: therefore my heart greatly rejoiceth; and with my song will I praise him. Psalm 55:22 ~ Cast thy burden upon the LORD, and he shall sustain thee: he shall never suffer the righteous to be moved.

Psalm 68:19 ~ Blessed be the Lord, who daily loadeth us with benefits, even the God of our salvation. Selah.

Psalm 73:23-24 ~ Nevertheless I am continually with thee: thou hast holden me by my right hand. Thou shalt guide me with thy counsel, and afterward receive me to glory. Psalm 73:26 ~ My flesh and my heart faileth: but God is the strength of my heart, and my portion for ever.

Psalm 116:15 ~ Precious in the sight of the LORD is the death of his saints.

Psalm 146:5-6 ~ Happy is he that hath the God of Jacob for his help, whose hope is in the LORD his God: Which made heaven, and earth, the sea, and all that therein is: which keepeth truth for ever

Isaiah 41:10 ~ Fear thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness.

Isaiah 43:2 ~ When thou passest through the waters, I will be with thee; and through the rivers, they shall not overflow thee: when thou walkest through the fire, thou shalt not be burned; neither shall the flame kindle upon thee. Isaiah 49:13 ~ Sing, O heavens; and be joyful, O earth; and break forth into singing, O mountains: for the LORD hath comforted his people, and will have mercy upon his afflicted.

Isaiah 54:5 ~ For thy Maker is thine husband; the LORD of hosts is his name; and thy Redeemer the Holy One of Israel; The God of the whole earth shall he be called.

John 14:18 ~ I will not leave you comfortless: I will come to you.

John 14:27 ~ Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.

1 Corinthians 2:9 ~ But as it is written, Eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, neither have entered into the heart of man, the things which God hath prepared for them that love him.

1 Peter 5:7 ~ Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you.

Chickens...Chickens...Chickens

2011-08-15T14:13:00.000-07:00

I posted the other day about buying chickens from World Vision but since my post I was also given information about Gospel for Asia. They also have chickens you can buy for families to help them with income. One hundred percent of the money you give to Gospel for Asia is sent to the field, none is used for administration. That means a lot!

So along with fasting and praying on Wednesday, I will be giving my money to Gospel for Asia to buy chickens in memory of Mike.

To God be the glory!

TSMSS ~ Come, Let Us Worship & Bow Down

2011-08-13T17:43:00.000-07:00

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In Loving Memory

2011-08-10T06:44:00.000-07:00

A week from today marks the one year anniversary of Mike's home going. I have been thinking alot about what I want to do in his memory.

First and foremost, Mike loved God. He desired to do God's will.

He also loved life, the outdoors, adventures, children, animals. Mike was a very structured, detailed man and I learned so much from him. I am so thankful for the 8 wonderful years of marriage that God allowed us to have.

The last years of our life together we had the opportunity to have chickens. We had such fun times just sitting and watching the chickens. I know I am not very good at writing and expressing myself with words but I have so many memories going through my head right now.

I came across the World Vision website and I realized this would be a wonderful tradition to start as a memory of Mike. I can donate chickens to provide nutrition and income to multiple families.

I have one more tradition I would like to start and that is a day of fasting and praying. Fasting from food, computer, television, facebook and cell phone. A day that I can focus 100% on God, worshiping Him, and praying for wisdom and guidance in my life.

I share these thoughts with you for two reasons. 1) I want you to hold me accountable. 2) I would love to know if any of you are interested in joining me.

To God be the Glory!

2011-08-08T19:32:00.000-07:00

P365 ~ Week 31 & 32

2011-08-07T09:09:00.000-07:00

Week 31 - Sunday - I was feeling sick so I took it easy the entire day.

Monday - Rachel and I put together this gas grill. I think we did a GREAT job. I impressed myself! Tuesday - Mom and Rachel flew home.

Wednesday, Thursday, Friday - I spent most of the day working on cards. I needed to make baby shower cards for two ladies in our church that are expecting. I am also working on stocking up on my card inventory. Saturday - Kathy and I went out to get us a little treat... can you guess where we went? Week 32 - Sunday - Our neighbors house went up for auction but right before they lost access to the house they went in and gutted the place. I couldn't believe it. This is what is left in the kitchen... basically, nothing! They even took the toilets. Now what in the world are they going to do with the toilets? Monday - this is the best looking bread I have made since moving out here. For some reason my loafs were not turning out but I finally had success and honestly I don't even know what I did differently. Tuesday - Got to spend a few hours with this precious little boy and his mama.

For dinner Lana, Paul, Kathy and I went to our favorite sushi restaurant 808 Sushi. After dinner we went into the AT&T store next door. While Paul and Kathy were taking care of official AT&T stuff, Lana and I played around with the phones. We were cracking up, having a good old time. The people must have thought we were crazy. Wednesday - I spent the day cleaning the house and I totally forgot to take any pictures.

Thursday - I spent the day with a friend from church. On my way to her house I saw this hot air balloon. It was low and I could see the people standing inside the basket. It was cool! Friday - We had dinner with a sweet family from church. They taught us a new game called Settlers of Cattan. Saturday - We went to Miss Shirley's 75th birthday party. It still amazes me that she is 75. She is full of life and doesn't allow her age to slow her down one bit. I am finally caught up on Project 365 so now it's time for me to check out Sara's blog to see what everyone else is up to these days.

TSMSS ~ The Power of Your Love

2011-08-06T05:19:00.000-07:00

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TSMSS ~ We Fall Down

2011-07-30T05:00:00.000-07:00

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