Friday, August 13, 2010

Pass the Biscuit

My Dad passed this email along to me...not sure who the original writer of the email is but I thought it was excellent and I wanted to pass it on!

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When I was a kid, my mom liked to make breakfast food for dinner every now and then. And I remember one night in particular when she had made breakfast after a long, hard day at work.

On that evening so long ago, my mom placed a plate of eggs, sausage and extremely burned biscuits in front of my dad. I remember waiting to see if anyone noticed! Yet all my dad did was reach for his biscuit, smile at my mom and ask me how my day was at school.

I don't remember what I told him that night, but I do remember watching him smear butter and jelly on that biscuit and eat every bite!

When I got up from the table that evening, I remember hearing my mom apologize to my dad for burning the biscuits. And I'll never forget what he said: "Honey, I love burned biscuits."

Later that night, I went to kiss Daddy good night and I asked him if he really liked his biscuits burned. He wrapped me in his arms and said, "Your Momma put in a hard day at work today and she's real tired. And besides, a little burnt biscuit never hurt anyone!"

Life is full of imperfect things and imperfect people. I'm not the best at hardly anything, and I forget birthdays and anniversaries just like everyone else. But what I've learned over the years is that learning to accept each others faults and choosing to celebrate each others differences is one of the most important keys to creating a healthy, growing, and lasting relationship.

So we should learn to take the good, the bad, and the ugly parts of your life and lay them at the feet of God. Because in the end, He's the only One who will be able to give you a relationship where a burnt biscuit isn't a deal-breaker!

We could extend this to any relationship. In fact, understanding is the base of any relationship, be it a husband-wife or parent-child, sibling, or friendship!

"Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket. Keep it in your own."

God Bless You, now, and always.

5 comments:

Mari said...

This is so good! There is so much wisdom in here. Do you mind if I put it on my blog - and link back to you?

Willys and Elizabeth (Lizzie) said...

Mari - thanks so much for taking the time to leave me a comment... You are welcome to post this to your blog also... I think everyone needs to read it! :-)

Karen said...

Oh, this is definitely a keeper..I am bookmarking it now...

EstarellasFamily said...

Elizabeth that was beautiful! Should print it out and leave it on a certain persons dresser. (I think you know who I mean....lol)

Darla said...

I love this! thanks for sharing.

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